Are Filipino Customs Still "In"?

Are Filipino Customs Still “In”?

Filipinos are unique. They have their own traditions and customs that are very different from other countries. But as time goes by, some Filipinos forget to maintain these customs. They become open to other countries’ customs and adopt these more. But for me, I would rather keep some of our Filipino customs and pass them, somehow, to the next generation.

One good example of a Filipino custom is the use of “po” and “opo” in our language. It is so unique because, as far as I know, other languages do not have a specific word that refers to politeness when talking to other persons. It also symbolizes respect for the elders. Some Filipinos today, especially the youth, forget this, that is why their images become rebellious against adults or the elders.

Another example of these Filipino customs is the Filipino’s love for their family. Filipino families are always described as closely-knit families. They believe on the saying that “the more, the merrier.” Filipino families put great emphasis on being together, doing things together and helping each other especially during trying times. This is not so in other nations. Other countries train their children to be independent by living away from the parents when they reach the age of maturity. By this, parents do not bond so often with their children. But Filipino families would have their children for as long as these children are not married or not working in a far-away place. If they are no longer living together with their parents once an opportunity arises, they would always be at their family’s side.

But the custom which I think we must all keep is the so-called “bayanihan”—the manner of being helpful and concerned with our fellowmen. Nowadays, we all know the crises that our country faces. We are all suffering but if one helps another, I think, somehow, in that simple way, our country will improve. We can always think of others as we think of ourselves.

These are just few of the many Filipino customs that I am proud of. If we keep these and teach them to children, it will surely make an improved nation with good values.

(Bernadette Ann Pestaňas)